From the Hanitizer, who is currently in Gaza:
I headed to the neighborhood mosque for Friday prayer here in Beit Lahia last week. For being in a small farmers’ town, the mosque was unusually packed. I sat down just as the sermon began. I couldn’t help but to take a moment to look around at the mosque congregation surrounding me. It was at that moment that I realized that I was sitting next to a funeral casket with a dead person actually in it. I jumped in shock the moment I realized that it wasn’t just a decoration in the prayer hall.
Obviously, living in the States for as long as I have, Americans don’t have much interaction with dead bodies, at least not so close-up and definitely not when you’re in a religious place and you’re about to pray. Maybe in Baltimore, where street violence is rampant, it would be less unusual.
I wanted to get up and to move somewhere else, but I was stuck right there. The mosque had gotten packed in the last few minutes. Few of people know that I am just here visiting and I didn’t want to disturb them.
The family of the deceased had brought her in for a brief janazah prayer. Since Friday prayer is the largest gathering, they sure made use of it.
When I shared my “horror story” with friends after the Friday sermon, the first thing one of them said was, “At least she was in once piece!” referring to the many deaths due to Israel’s recent assault. Then, body parts had to be collected to properly bury the dead.
A second friend noted, “it’s only one person that we had to conduct such a prayer for today.”
A third one was even gloomier: “This woman lived her life . . . not like the children we had to bury.” I wasn’t sure what to say to them, so I joined them in the prayer where the imam confused the prayer for a deceased individual and forgot how to properly conduct it (I know this because my father told me so).
It’s amazing how the Israeli offensive has changed the mentality of everyday Gazan society, where events are now perceived with regards to the most recent attacks. In short, the most recent attacks are somewhat of a Palestinian 9/11, where things can only fit within pre-9/11 and post-9/11 mindsets.
I can’t wait to get back to the States, where I don’t have to worry about death and destruction all around or gruesome tales (expect for the ones Rob Zombie wants to share with us on the silver screen).
Making fun of a Gaza Friday sermon
I’m going on week 3 of my visit to Gaza Strip, where my family lives. Here’s a sample of some of the things I have heard in recent Friday sermons:
1. Women should not dress in a revealing manner at home—siblings might get seduced by their own sisters
2. Dish satellites ruin society—because young men and women stay up late watching morally objectionable entertainment
3. Women should not beautify themselves for their husbands—they are role models for their children and they should be very private about it
4. Women should not answer the phone and should only answers the numbers they know—weak hearted men might want to “chat” them up. Instead, have the males at home answer the phone
5. Women should not dance in front of video cameras at weddings—it’s not what nice women do
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- Killing the Dead
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- Fuzzy Math: Israel’s Dead Soldiers Numbers Don’t Add Up
- Al-Jazeera Twitter Page: Quick, Short and Unspun News















OMG Are you serious about #1???? That is so grosss…..and sad!!! reminds me of that scene in Babble with the Moroccon village kids…
The rest are despicable…all he rules are on women??? ya salam. Where is this Beit Laha?
Posted by Lena | July 14, 2009, 4:12 pmIt's in the Northern part of the Gaza Strip, just south of the border with Israel and just north of the Jabaliya Refugee Camp
Posted by Los | July 17, 2009, 4:25 amWell lets hope hamas does not attack again!
Posted by Avi | July 14, 2009, 4:24 pmMan. Those sermons are a long way from our "looking at Islamic economic development" sorta khutbas.
dayum.
Posted by SanaKF | July 14, 2009, 9:20 pmMakes me wonder if women are the main topics during every Friday sermon. Also, it sounds more depressing to listen about what they should not do than a sermon for the deceased. No wonder you are anxious about returning to the States!
Posted by s.d. | July 15, 2009, 5:32 amall the way from gaza huh?
specccccccctacular imagination you got there hani
Posted by Lauren | July 16, 2009, 7:55 am